Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Catching Up

There's so much to write about and so little time. I have had days worse than the one I mentioned here. Three of my eleven students were suspended on Halloween. There have been days where I have come home physically exhausted and emotionally and spiritually drained. Tears have not been an every day occurrence but neither have they been unexpected.

"D" is no longer with us. They moved him to another school that is closer to his home. His mom was blaming some of his behavior problems on the 30 minute ride to school. Yesterday was his first day in his new class. I do not know how it went but that school called our school at 8:15 am. I think it's more than the bus ride. . . My heart breaks for these children. I really like "D" when he's good. He can be so good and sweet and then there's the other, quite opposite side of him.

My other dilemma, adding tension to stress, was Holly. My honor roll student - practically all A's, fell off the academic cliff hard and fast. We gave her time to get adjusted to public school but the grades were just awful. We did flash cards, practice tests, extra worksheets and oral review. She knew the information but that fact wasn't at all obvious on her tests and quizzes. We spent almost as much time on homework as we did homeschool. Part of the problem was Holly and not working well in the public school setting. Another part was the lack of discipline in the classroom. With her grades sinking at a Titanic rate, the poor behavior of her classmates and their rude behavior towards her, we decided to pull her out and homeschool her once again. John is home during the day and he is being a great homeschool dad.

I spoke with the regular teacher yesterday. We now have an official date. My last day will be December 7th. I am thankful for the extra money. And all is not bad news. We had an amazingly good day today. It could be "D's" absence, lots of prayer or maybe both. In any case, thanks for your prayers and please keep on! I have 10.5 days left and I would love to say that the worst is over.

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9 Comments:

Blogger jewlsntexas said...

Karen - so glad to get an update -
You tried with Holly and school - and now you know. A lesson learned - but I am truly sorry she had such a bad experience. It is good that likely some curiosity might be satisfied.

I hope that you will enjoy your holidays - and am happy for you that your assignment will soon be over.

You're my hero - I don't know how you do it!

Oh yeah - and btw - great Revelation reference - I didn't even think of that. Sometimes in my thinking - it seems that it is almost science fiction or something that will happen way way way in the future - but I know it isn't.
The best history book of all, huh?

November 20, 2007 5:54 PM  
Blogger Drewe Llyn said...

I'm glad Holly is back home, though it's kind of sad since she was so excited. Like "Jewlsntexas" said, maybe some curiosity has been taken care of. At least it didn't take her 1 1/2 years like it did my own DD. I know this whole experience has been a growing time for all of you. Too bad growing can hurt so badly!!!! Hang in there, girl! You're going to make it!!!

Happy Thanksgiving!

November 20, 2007 8:25 PM  
Blogger Halfmoon Girl said...

Glad for the update. Sounds like a hard go for you and Holly. Hope she will be happier at home. Will pray that your last 10.5 days go better than your previous ones.

As for your comment on my blog- we are just going to pretend that that silly blog level thingy doesn't even exist! From this moment on, I will not speak of it again!!! You certainly do not rate as elementary!

November 20, 2007 9:35 PM  
Anonymous Heidi said...

Karen~ I am so glad to read an update from you~ I've been thinking about you and wondering how things have been going for you. Of course, I was hoping things were getting better!

I'm so sorry to hear about poor Holly's experiences. I'm just glad to know that you and John are such proactive parents and that you made the decision to bring her back home before things got worse. We had Ashley in p.s. for 2 1/2 years. Looking back, she knows that she didn't belong there~ but she learned a mighty big lesson~ that she never wants to go back! Me too! I just wish I had realized sooner, like you, and brought her back home.

November 21, 2007 7:24 AM  
Anonymous Cathy Nagle said...

Just stopping by to wish you and your
family a Very Happy Thanksgiving Day!

Give thanks to the Lord of lords,
For His loving kindness is everlasting. Psalm 136:3

Love, Cathy

November 21, 2007 10:56 AM  
Anonymous Maddy said...

I'm beginning to understand why so many people pull their children from regular school and homeschool instead.
Happy Thanksgiving

November 21, 2007 4:25 PM  
Blogger jblieu said...

Holly is lucky to have a homeschooling Daddy at home and a Mom who knows when to say enough.
Hope you enjoy your break too - sounds like you really need a nice vacation from work. Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

November 21, 2007 7:26 PM  
Anonymous Abiga said...

I will be praying for you. I went back to teaching this year and it has been so hard after being out of it for two years. So many problems with following in the shoes of last year's teacher. And bad behavior, malicious tattling and meanness is just not in the public schools as I deal with it daily in a Christian school. I can't wait till summer to come and I am done, just can't do it anymore. And I so much love helping homeschool my grandchildren anyway. Can't keep up with blogging anymore either.Blessings. http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/abiga51

November 21, 2007 8:42 PM  
Anonymous Marsha said...

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving break, Karen!

I'll be praying for y'all.

Love,
Marsha

November 24, 2007 10:48 PM  

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